Sonia’s parents, Niru and Mangu, were happy to have their daughter and son-in-law home for the first time since the wedding in June. In the Indian culture, the sun and moon rise and set on the son-in-law. He can do no wrong and is showered with gifts of good food and plenty of attention. Luckily, Jason is good-natured and takes it all in stride and offers to help out and doesn’t expect the royal treatment.
We talked late into the night about travel stories and made some tentative plans for our week at home. There are lots of close family friends Sonia has grown up with in the surrounding 5-10 miles and everyone wants to see us….so the week is shaping up to be busy with visiting and socializing.
Tuesday we wake up, drink chai and clean house=clean Loaf. We take the van apart, wash all the pots/pans/dishes, clean the sink and stove, launder bedding and shop vac the inside. Jason also took time to do some basic VW maintenance for the second half of the road trip. We putzed around all day. But the outcome was a nice, clean van again—like how we started out. Loafy was pretty happy.
We visited with some family friends for a short bit that evening after dinner, then drove up to Qaukertown, PA to visit friends who recently moved back to PA from Seattle, David, Molly and their 4 year old son, Kai. We arrived late and sat in front of the open fireplace drinking a couple beers and talking late into the night. We had the lovely pleasure of staying in this 100 year old house by our self that night. David and his family live in the pool house just across the way. This property was incredible. 30 acres of hardwood forested property near Lake Nockamixon. There’s a huge frozen pond out back to ice skate on when the snow has been cleared off of it. Plenty of space for kids of all ages to be out and explore—looking forward to that tomorrow. We slept in a super comfy cozy bed and woke to to a cold but clear blue sky day.
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Sonia and Kia having fun |
We visited with some family friends for a short bit that evening after dinner, then drove up to Qaukertown, PA to visit friends who recently moved back to PA from Seattle, David, Molly and their 4 year old son, Kai. We arrived late and sat in front of the open fireplace drinking a couple beers and talking late into the night. We had the lovely pleasure of staying in this 100 year old house by our self that night. David and his family live in the pool house just across the way. This property was incredible. 30 acres of hardwood forested property near Lake Nockamixon. There’s a huge frozen pond out back to ice skate on when the snow has been cleared off of it. Plenty of space for kids of all ages to be out and explore—looking forward to that tomorrow. We slept in a super comfy cozy bed and woke to to a cold but clear blue sky day.
Sonia woke Kai up and was greeted by a huge smile from ear to ear and then a whole lot of talking…and it didn’t stop for the rest of the day. How sweet he is though. We ate breakfast and finally coaxed Kai from his computer game and went out to play. We jumped on the trampoline. Jason and David were shooting a rifle at cans on snow piles. Kai learned a valuable lesson on how to load bullets into a clip…you know just another day in Pennsyltuckey! (He was not allowed to shoot the gun, however, maybe next year…he’s gotta start with a bow and arrow says his Dad) We had a great time.
A great visit at home again. We always have to pack in all the visiting but it's worth it every time.
Sonia's Mom is an excellent cook and made us lots of great meals. She even packed us up food to-go--cookies, chakris, nuts, dried fruit, etc....good thing we won't starve. Thanks Mom and Dad/Niru and Mangu for everything. We love you and will miss you.
Take care all.
Lee’s Hoagie House for lunch—the best hoagie place around. Sonia grew up eating Lee’s Hoagies and can’t say enough good things about them…they are GOOD! The consistency of the bread, the thin sliced cheeses and of course the special hoagie dressing….it’s just so good!!
That evening, we went to visit Suju, a close friend of Sonia’s who just finished 6 treatments of Chemotherapy for Lymphoma. Suju was in good spirits when we arrived… and she should be—we had a pizza pie in hand!! We sat around ate pizza and conversed for hours about all kinds of things…kids to weather to relationships to chia seeds to cancer to travels to super-tasters, tasters and non-tasters, etc….It was a great night spent in great company. Suju has been staying strong minded and is keeping a positive outlook and it shows. All the best to you Suj—we’ll be thinking of you as you regain your strength and health back.
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A necessary stop at Lee's Hogie House |
The following day, Thursday, we went to Washington D.C with Sonia’s parents to show Jason our nation’s capitol. Read more on the blog about D.C.
Friday, Jason and Sonia had a leisurely morning-Fresh hot chai by Sonia’s Dad (we could really get used to this treatment) with a little breakfast. We ran a few errands around town. After lunch, we went to Acts Inc., Sonia’s Mom’s workplace. People were so excited to see us in person. It seemed like most of the office was following our blog and we were just these two characters telling travel stories with pictures and supposedly the girl in the story was Niru’s daughter. It was kinda funny- we felt a little like small-scale-celebrities. Luckily, it wasn’t an agro crowd because our bodyguard was taking the afternoon off…haha. It was rather strange but in a good way. Many said they were envious and wished they could do that themselves. We received lots of good wishes for safe travels home and left feeling really good about our choices and our life.
That evening we were hosting a small enchilada dinner like we do on Christmas Eve at the Karumsi house—only a mere 20 people this time. (it’s usually 50+ brown people under one roof- all talking louder and louder as the evening progresses. The volume could be understandable if there was a lot of alcohol consumption but there isn’t ….its just Indians being Indians. Sonia loves it and finds comfort and happiness in it…Jason is learning to embrace it-the feeling of a bunch of happy people in one house who are all talking very loudly is slowly becoming more enjoyable…or at least he’s beginning to understand it. The Loaf was a scenic attraction and the kids and adults alike were fascinated that we can sleep, cook, brush our teeth and drive all in the same van.
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Party in the Loaf |
We took some of the kids for a short ride just down the street in the neighborhood…only a couple cars on the road and of course one has to be a cop. Small town cops…uh oh!! Niketa and Sonia look at each other a bit panicked and frozen. Niketa is sitting in the back seat holding a 2 year old on her lap and next to her are 3 other kids, 6 and 7 years old-none with seat belts. Sonia’s co-pilot is 9 years old. Sonia casually made a right turn into the Industrial Park, the street right before where the cop was stopped. The cop turned right, probably thinking where’d this jalopy come from. Luckily, we have tinted windows in the van and as the van turned right, the cop turned right and probably couldn’t really see in. We slowly made our way around the building complex and stalled a bit to allow enough time for the cop to drive up the road and out of sight. We turned left out of the parking lot and drove the speed limit but hurried in to the driveway, turned the lights off, parked and went into home base, safely. Niketa and Sonia high-fived and poured themselves a glass of wine. Let’s just all be thankful that Sonia and Niketa aren’tt in jail, thereby ending the Loaf Love Tour.
Saturday, Sonia's parents and us went to Sonia's cousins, Nikunj and Samir's house in Philadelphia. Samir, Sneha and Rahill just welcomed Ronav to their family. Ronav is a 3 weeks old boy...he slept the entire time we were there, despite the running, screaming and general craziness in the house by the other 3 kids. Nikunj and Hetal have 2 kids, Suraj-6 y.o boy and Simeran-3 y.o girl. It was great to play with the kids and catch up with Sonia's cousins.
Saturday night, we went to Amita and Sunny's for Ethan's birthday party. We gathered around for more food and and brown people and good company. Sonia used to be babysat by Amita and Niketa as a small child. The running joke is why the parents entrusted kids to Amita and Niketa because they once dropped Sonia down the stairs.
Saturday, Sonia's parents and us went to Sonia's cousins, Nikunj and Samir's house in Philadelphia. Samir, Sneha and Rahill just welcomed Ronav to their family. Ronav is a 3 weeks old boy...he slept the entire time we were there, despite the running, screaming and general craziness in the house by the other 3 kids. Nikunj and Hetal have 2 kids, Suraj-6 y.o boy and Simeran-3 y.o girl. It was great to play with the kids and catch up with Sonia's cousins.
Saturday night, we went to Amita and Sunny's for Ethan's birthday party. We gathered around for more food and and brown people and good company. Sonia used to be babysat by Amita and Niketa as a small child. The running joke is why the parents entrusted kids to Amita and Niketa because they once dropped Sonia down the stairs.
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Ethan's birthday party |
A great visit at home again. We always have to pack in all the visiting but it's worth it every time.
Sonia's Mom is an excellent cook and made us lots of great meals. She even packed us up food to-go--cookies, chakris, nuts, dried fruit, etc....good thing we won't starve. Thanks Mom and Dad/Niru and Mangu for everything. We love you and will miss you.
Take care all.